About this website

About this website

Mission statement

1. Provide a safe supportive breast cancer community.

2. Provide straightforward practical advice about breast cancer treatment and easy-to-navigate links to reputable online resources.

3. Provide easily accessible expert and professional advice on a range of topics relevant to breast cancer treatment.

4. Acknowledge that whilst breast cancer patients (past and present) share a number of similarities, each person has their own breast cancer story.

5. Provide companionship to someone going through breast cancer treatment by sharing personal stories.


We aim to provide practical advice for men and women standing at the edge of the breast cancer precipice not knowing which way to turn (and for their partners, families and friends who would like to know how to help). It is for anyone with any stage of breast cancer. Some sections will be more relevant to people with primary breast cancer, and others may be of more interest to people with secondary breast cancer. Everyone is welcome.

Upon being diagnosed with breast cancer, some people will grab the “breast-cancer-bull” by the horns: reading up on every single aspect of breast cancer treatment and research that they can get their hands on, asking their breast cancer surgeon and oncologist plenty of questions, squirreling away on the internet trying to find the answer to all the questions that their breast cancer surgeon and oncologist cannot answer and joining every support group that they can find. They want to know more: they want to be 100% informed about their treatment options, prognosis, and chances of survival recurrence and further spread.

On the other hand, some people will put up a mental wall and bury their heads in the sand: they are not interested in anything other than what they are told by their medical team. There is only so much space in one’s brain and after a cancer diagnosis most of that space is taken up with the diagnosis and the associated feelings about it. For these people, they just don’t have any extra space in their brain to deal with anything over and above the fact that they have breast cancer and have to go through, what looks like, a pretty tough treatment plan. They don’t feel up to visiting a support centre, speaking to anyone else with breast cancer or reading anything which remotely relates to breast cancer and its treatment. Most of all they are scared to look on the internet because they feel unable to cope with filtering the overwhelming/irrelevant/untrue information that is abound on the internet.

Whilst it is absolutely fine to take either of these approaches to a breast cancer diagnosis (there is no right or wrong way of dealing with it – it is a very personal reaction) most people fall somewhere in the middle of these two extremes. Most people want to ask a few questions, do a bit of research and check their options. But they can be wary of going online because they know that in finding answers to their questions, they are also likely to come across some overwhelming, irrelevant, out of date and untrue information. Information that they will have to deal with: some of it may give them something else to worry about rather than helping to ease the stress. It can be a scary place.

Wherever you fall within this spectrum, this website is suitable for you.  It’s a basic website that focuses on what to expect at each step of the way, together with plenty of practical checklists that you can use when preparing for/undergoing each stage of treatment. And if you want to look into anything in more detail then you can click through the links. For those of you looking for answers, options, guidance or detailed information this will be a good starting point and you will be able to click through all the external links to carry out your research.

The sections of this website

The website sections are categorised simply by the steps along your breast cancer journey from diagnosis to life during treatment:





Life during treatment

Useful links and resources

You can also dip into any category at any time: it doesn’t matter at which stage of the breast cancer journey you may be.


Within each of these categories are lists. To-do lists, shopping lists, need-to-know lists and bullet point lists. At the end of each page there are plenty of links to additional information that is available online. So if you would like more information but don’t know where to go, these links are an excellent starting point.

Practical advice and directions to additional online resources

This website steers clear of anything other than practical advice (much of it is based upon our experience, some of it is recommended by other cancer patients and some is from research). We don’t talk much about the different types of breast cancer, cancer statistics, stages and grades. We don’t discuss alternative therapies, new drugs, prognosis, recurrence or causes of cancer. We don’t talk in medical terms. And we certainly don’t give medical or professional advice. But we do provide plenty of signposts to where you can find that sort of information if you wish to read about it.

External links

We’ve have done a lot of online research and  only included links to (what are in our opinion) reputable external websites. Some links are to the relevant pages of  the well known cancer organisations (such as Cancer Research UK, Macmillan, Breast Cancer Now). Some links are through to lesser known organisations: ones that provide something over and above the larger organisations (such as Look Good Feel Better, Nourish with Jane Clarke and Your Sim Pal – to name just a few). We’ve also put in links to places where you can buy specialised cancer related products – things that will help you through your treatment – from online shops that you may not have come across (such as Live Better With Cancer, Drain Dollies, Not Another Bunch of Flowers and Defiant Beauty). We don’t have any affiliation with these places – they’re just places we like!

This website does not cover everything there is to know about breast cancer or its treatment

This is not intended to be a comprehensive guide to ALL things breast cancer. The Universe of Breast Cancer is so vast that there are certainly things that we don’t cover. But we’ve tried to signpost you to as many additional resources as we can find.

Our stories and journeys are all different

There is no “one size fits all” for breast cancer. All of us have a different story and a different journey. But we hope that we can give you some support and encouragement and direct you to places with more information about your particular situation, whatever stage of breast cancer you have been diagnosed with.

Men can get breast cancer too

Sadly, men can also get breast cancer. And whilst this website is primarily aimed at women going through breast cancer treatment (because we’re women and it’s based on our experience) a lot of the advice and links to additional resources will also be of help to men going through this.

If your friend or family member has breast cancer

For those of you supporting a loved one or friend through their journey, there is plenty of information in each section to help you understand the journey and what you can do to help.

And there’s more……

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So, pop the kettle on, make a cup of (green) tea and let’s get started….

Have a look at this article for Cancer Care Parcel about how this website came about….

Disclaimer: Nothing in this website is intended to be taken as professional, medical or definitive advice. It merely contains tips and advice based on our experience together with information which we have researched from some excellent websites and books (all of which are listed in my useful links/resources section). We urge you to dip into some of the excellent professional websites such as those listed in the useful links/resources section and ALWAYS talk to your medical team about concerns and questions relating to your cancer journey and treatment plan.

Please note that we do not accept responsibility for the content of the guest blogs. The information and content provided in all guest blogs is intended for information and educational purposes only and is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice.

Please note that we do not accept responsibility for the content of information located via the links provided in this website. 

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